James, I don't understand why you won't meet with me and your mom. We want the whole family to come together and be part of the miracle of the birth of your little sister. It will be magical and how great will it be for her to grow up surrounded by her big brothers and their babies. Your mother wanted you and Silas as well as your wives and kids there with us. Obviously Andrew is invited too but you need to get on board with this. This has nothing to do with me or your mother. Set aside your differences with us and think about your little sister. She's going to need you in her life just like Silas and Andrew need you.

You need to figure out why you're so angry and deal with it because it's going to make you a bitter old man who can't see the forest for the trees. Just do this one thing and you will feel better like a weight lifted off of you. If I don't hear back from you soon I will assume that you have made up your mind and will not be a part of your sisters life.